Why I Love My Hubby

If you asked me why I love my hubby a few years ago I don't think I would be able to tell you any specific reasons why.  I just knew that I did.  But within the last year, hubby and I have been through alot. Mostly good but some bad times.  Over a year ago there is know way I would have thought we would still be together and no way would we be here at this point in our lives.  We love and trust and respect one another like I never though we would.

We have been through alot. We brokeup for a couple of months and I thought that it was finaly over.  But it just made us realize how much we are meant to spend the rest of our lives together.  We also dealt with a miscarriage and he is their for me to cry to when I feel sad about it. Then of course we have the "swinging" the open marriage and the other crazy stuff that makes life interesting.

I can't even begin to imagine my life without him.  He is my best friend and really is the only one that truly understands me.

Reasons why I love my hubby:

He makes me laugh - he is a smart ass and we get each others crazy sense of humor.  There is noone else I know that can be thinking the same funny ass thing that I am thinking.

He is so frickin smart - so not only is he a smart ass, he is book smart.  The useless gameshow knowledge that he has in his head comes in handy when I am laying in bed and have some weird ass question that I dont know the answer too.

He is my complete other half - he is an active equal partner in this marriage. he cooks, clean, and is a great daddy. And he respects the fact that just because I am the woman, it does not mean that I am the household slave....we save the slave duties to the bedroom :)

Amazing sex - From the first time we drunkenly decided to have sex on Thanksgiving night 1999, the sexual chemistry has been intense.  Every year that we are together the sex gets better and better.  I truly believe that a couples sex life is the glue that holds them together.

He really honestly loves me, all of me - hes love me for all I can and cannot give.  He shows me love every day in everything he does.  I can honestly say that I have found the one that loves me as much as I love him.


Of course we have our bad day, our arguements and our little things that irrititate the crap out of us.  But I would gladly take the little bits of bad to keep the good any day.  Because with out these wall, bumps, and detours life would be way too boring and it would take the fun out of making our love work.  Plus everyone knows that make-up sex is the best.