Happy One Year, Purple Shirt Guy!

12/12/09

I can't believe that one year ago today you entered my life.  Who would have thought we would have been through all that we have and feel the way we do about each other from a simple glance one night at a bar.  Obviously there is a higher power that has brought us together. 

I remember the first few weeks of our friendship, like it was yesterday.  The way we met each other is nothing but strange.  I remember the first time finally talking to you in person,  I could tell you were as nervous as I was.  And I will never forget the nervousness and excitement I was feeling when we had crazy intense sex for the first time.

Sometime between then and now, the intense chemestry or "the magic" you like to call it, has grown to more than you and I ever thought to be possible.  I mean you and I were suppose to be "just sex" right.  That is what happens with you meet someone on a sex site.  No strings attached sex.  I seem to be okay doing that with other guys...but when it comes to you I can't.  I can't help but feel the "L" word towards you.  Maybe its because I can't even imagine this last year without you.  The crazy fun we have had and the  late night chats that have kept me sane.  Or maybe it is the fact that along with all the fun we have had, we have had to deal with a few "not so fun" things.  Things that I thought that our friendship would not make it through.  But it did, and I think that is why we feel the way we do now. 

So I just want to say "Happy One Year Purple Shirt Guy."  I am so glad you walked into my life. And I cannot wait to see what this next year has in store for us. Cuz knowing us it will be anything but boring!

Why I Love My Hubby

If you asked me why I love my hubby a few years ago I don't think I would be able to tell you any specific reasons why.  I just knew that I did.  But within the last year, hubby and I have been through alot. Mostly good but some bad times.  Over a year ago there is know way I would have thought we would still be together and no way would we be here at this point in our lives.  We love and trust and respect one another like I never though we would.

We have been through alot. We brokeup for a couple of months and I thought that it was finaly over.  But it just made us realize how much we are meant to spend the rest of our lives together.  We also dealt with a miscarriage and he is their for me to cry to when I feel sad about it. Then of course we have the "swinging" the open marriage and the other crazy stuff that makes life interesting.

I can't even begin to imagine my life without him.  He is my best friend and really is the only one that truly understands me.

Reasons why I love my hubby:

He makes me laugh - he is a smart ass and we get each others crazy sense of humor.  There is noone else I know that can be thinking the same funny ass thing that I am thinking.

He is so frickin smart - so not only is he a smart ass, he is book smart.  The useless gameshow knowledge that he has in his head comes in handy when I am laying in bed and have some weird ass question that I dont know the answer too.

He is my complete other half - he is an active equal partner in this marriage. he cooks, clean, and is a great daddy. And he respects the fact that just because I am the woman, it does not mean that I am the household slave....we save the slave duties to the bedroom :)

Amazing sex - From the first time we drunkenly decided to have sex on Thanksgiving night 1999, the sexual chemistry has been intense.  Every year that we are together the sex gets better and better.  I truly believe that a couples sex life is the glue that holds them together.

He really honestly loves me, all of me - hes love me for all I can and cannot give.  He shows me love every day in everything he does.  I can honestly say that I have found the one that loves me as much as I love him.


Of course we have our bad day, our arguements and our little things that irrititate the crap out of us.  But I would gladly take the little bits of bad to keep the good any day.  Because with out these wall, bumps, and detours life would be way too boring and it would take the fun out of making our love work.  Plus everyone knows that make-up sex is the best.