Wednesday, November 11, 2009

My First Post

So I guess I should talk a little bit about me and how I got to be where I am now.....I have been married for almost 8 years and we have 3 kids. I also have my teenage sister living with me (no fun sometimes). My life the last year has been crazy...I mean really crazy. Full of coinsidences and strange, how did that just happen to me, type of stuff. I have been wanting to start a blog...anonymous of course, for sometime now. I figure that all those housewives that are out there, some like me, some not ,would love to read about the crazy soap opera that my life has become. All do to my choices of course...and no I am not complaining. Makes like interesting and far from boring. Some of you may say that "you have kids, how can life be boring." I agree to some extent...but then I believe married couple has two important parts of their lives; their is "mom and dad" life (kids, work, homelife), then there is "Sarynn and Mike " life ( the time that is so important in an marriage where you can be alone, connect and reconnect with one another and not worry or focus on everyday life). I think that alot of couples lose site of "Sarynn and Mike".  Now, we are not you average married couple. We dont believe in the traditional marriage. Nothing wrong with the traditional marriage but it just doesnt work for us.  A year ago we decided to try something a little less traditional you can say.  We decided on more of an open marriage.  Free to have "friends" on the side, free to have our own time, as long as it doesnt take away from our family. OOOOH shocker I know.  But if u dont want to read about it, click the X at the top right hand side of the box. 

So when I write my stories, all of it is true, names have been changed so that I dont get anyone in trouble.  I will be posting some pics, because some stories just are not as good unless you have the pic to refer to.  Hope you enjoy!

2 comments:

  1. Finally a slut willing to tell the truth:) What is it about women who sleep around and hide it? I mean come on... if you are slutty just go with it! We know you are so don't lie about it! Right on, there is nothing more freeing then telling your truth:)
    Love Tawnia

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  2. Hello Hooker it is me your BFF. You probably already know that i'm less than thrilled about your current life choices. As crazy as your last 12 months has been mine also has been hard. There are times when I think about you & our friendship & become upset. I know you think I'm crazy, anal bla, bla, bla I'm sure the list goes on & on, but for me it's hard to no longer have anything in common with someone you have known for 20 plus years. Its hard to go from having someone to hang out with, to talk to & have a connection with & then in one traditional x-mas light looking event everything you had, known was in my eyes gone. I know I will not fully understand why you are going down this road & I know you don't understand why I just don't get it or you any more. I understand people, life etc change, but I guess I never imagined it would change so much. I do want you to be happy I really do. Believe it or not I really have tried to be understanding. I understand we are very different now & our lifes & were we find happiness is different. I miss you I miss my best friend I know you don't feel much has changed between us, but it has & maybe it's just me I don't know. I just wanted to let you know how I feel & you can do whatever w/this info. I love you & like I said I miss my BFF the one I had up til dec 2008. I feel like I'm getting to know a new person "Sarynn" & I know its probably just me, but there it is.
    Love, Hooker

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